Lessons from the Life of Carrie Baillee

Twenty-five years ago, I had the privilege of meeting an extraordinary woman who would forever change my perspective on life. Carrie Bailee is one of those rare individuals who never ceases to amaze me with her resilience, her humor and her unwavering spirit. 

Carrie's life has been marked by unimaginable hardship. As a child, she endured horrific abuse that left deep scars on her body and mind. Yet, she survived and, in a remarkable turn of events, became the first refugee in Australia from Canada.  

Now, she is courageously battling cancer. It's a cruel twist of fate that someone who has already endured so much should face such a daunting challenge. Yet despite the battle ahead of her, Carrie continues to inspire and uplift those around her. 

Our time together over recent weeks has reminded me of how incredibly fortunate I am to have Carrie in my life. Her strength, resilience and unwavering spirit continue to inspire me and her message of hope and healing is more important than ever. 

What Can We Learn from Carrie’s Remarkable Life? 

Resilience

One of the most profound lessons I've learned from Carrie is the power of human resilience. She has taught me that no matter how difficult life may become, we can always find the strength to persevere.  

Purpose

Despite the pain and suffering she has endured, Carrie has found real purpose in her life. She has shared her story to inspire others, to raise awareness about child abuse and to advocate for survivors. Her book, “Flying on Broken Wings,” is a testament to her strength and her commitment to helping others. 

Humor

Even in the darkest of times, Carrie finds a way to laugh. I can honestly say that I’ve never laughed as much and as hard, as I do when I’m with Carrie.  She is definitely the only person to ever make me laugh while talking about dying.  Carrie has a unique ability to find humor in any situation and isn't afraid to say what comes to her mind, even if it means pointing out the absurdity of my ridiculously short thumbs and big toes. 

Love

Despite the betrayals she has experienced Carrie chooses to love unconditionally. If anyone could be forgiven for thinking people suck, it’s Carrie.  And yet she has the ability to see the good in people and love them for who they are.  She truly is a wonderful friend.   

Carrie’s life is a powerful reminder that we all have the capacity to overcome adversity and find meaning in our lives. Her story is a beacon of hope, inspiring us to embrace life’s challenges with courage and grace. 

I am eternally grateful for Carrie’s friendship and for the many lessons she has taught me. Her spirit will continue to inspire me and I know that her legacy will live on.